had your same problem with my '01 250,
1. the wire cap will come off, though kind of a pain, left hand in the engine hole on the plug wire and right hand you can get a couple of fingers in thru the space between the pipe and the plastics. using both hands you can pop it off.
2. get a plug wrench, its short and you can get a little more motion out of it. once you've popped the cap off the plug, you just need to break the plug loose and then you can spin it out with your fingers, but wear you mechanix gloves if its hot...blisters hurt!

the hard part is reaching over the seat to get your right hand in there to pop that cap, but you'll get it!

have fun...