KX Riders
General => In General... => Topic started by: Foxx4Beaver on March 19, 2015, 03:09:11 PM
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This is a little out of character for me and the site....but if it can save someone's life, it'll make me feel a whole lot better.
Anyone getting a CT scan, please be sure to be tested if you are allergic to the dye they use.
My dad went into our local hospital yesterday (3-18-15) to have CT done to check his lungs for a breathing issue. The scan went fine, nothing bad was found....but while he was waiting for the doctor to tell him he could leave, he started coughing, violently...then fell on the floor.
Luckily this happened at the hospital, so within seconds he was being treated with CPR and the electric shocking. Unfortunately it took them almost 15 minutes to get a pulse back...which was not good...but managed to get him in the Critical Care Unit, and semi stable.
They had him hooked up to all kinds of machines, and assisted breathing last night and all of today. His eyes would open periodically for a second here and there...but he was so heavily sedated, we don't know if he actually knew what was going on, or if he even knew my mom, my sister and her husband, and I were there by his side.
Then at 6:15 tonight, he went into arrest again...the doctors tried to stabilize him for a couple minutes, until the doctor came out and told my mom he could not guarantee he would ever be the same, and that they already knew there was substantial heart damage from the 1st heart attack last night, and that this 2nd one would've more than likely caused brain damage as well.
Both my mom and dad promised each other that they would not allow either one to have to be dependent on people to live...so my mom had to make that decision to let him go on the spot...which my sister and I supported 100%.
My dad was one the healthiest people in the world, he went in for a CT scan that could've potentially saved his life...and it ended up killing him.
The doctors do believe this was all caused by an allergic reaction to the dye.
Again, if you or someone you know are getting a CT scan done, be sure to be tested for allergies.
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Foxx,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know a lot of folks in that field and they are suppose to screen for that. I hope that the final preparations go smoothly and that you and your family find comfort and peace any way that you see fit. Whether you believe in it or not, thoughts and prayers for you guys.
Thanks for the heads up too.
Alex
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Foxx... You have my deepest and most sincere condolences.
I can't even imagine what you are going through.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
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Foxx, that is terrible news. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Just know we are here for you.
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I am very sad and sorry for your loss. I have had the dye before and never thought about that possibility. Thanks for putting it out there.
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This also made me stop and think, they performed a few CT scans on me last year after my crash, I don't know if they used die or not.
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So sad!
I've had the CT scan and hit the dye allergy instantly also but only got into some serious vomiting for 20-30 minutes, never considered that it could have done more!
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I could never come up with the correct words to say how much I appreciate all of you guy's thoughts. With the mentally and emotional past 48 hours, all I can come up with right now is Thank You!!...you have no idea how much it means to me.
My mom got a phone call from my dads primary care doctor early this morning, who has been his doctor for about 25 years. He was crying so much that my mom had to comfort him.
His doctor also confirmed "allergic reaction" to be the cause, because of my dads color...he was very red and blotchy and extremely swollen.
I know a lot of folks in that field and they are suppose to screen for that.
I couldn't agree with you more Alex.
I'm by NO means a doctor, and I avoid doctors/hospitals for as long as I possibly can.
One of the very 1st questions I asked my mom was..."didn't they test him for allergies?"
And apparently because my dad had several CT's over the past 8 years or so for shoulder and knee issues, with both the two different dyes/contrasts they use, and never had an issue with either one, they didn't see it as being necessary. My dads primary care did confirm that also, because he had the medical imaging doctor fax him all my dads files for the CT's he's had.
I've had 4 CT's in my life, and only on the last two I had in 2011 I was administered a "test injection", then wait 20 minutes, and once I passed that test, they gave me the full injection...then that uncomfortable warm/hot feeling comes rushing in.
I do know that allergies can happen at any time, even if you've already had a certain something in the past without any issues. It took 4 times for me to become allergic to Demerol injections. Before I had my dislocating shoulder fixed, the hospital injected Demerol into my upper arm 4 times in a year...then that 4th time, my entire arm swelled up like Popeye's, to the point I could barely move my fingers.
Do I believe my dads death was preventable?...absolutely!...it should've never happened if he was administered a test injection moments before the actual CT .
Unfortunately there's nothing that will bring him back now...and my sister and I haven't asked our mom if she was planning to contact her lawyer to make him aware of what happened. Money can never replace his life.
Again, thank you guys for all your kind words and thoughts!!
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Foxx,
I lack any wise words that can afford you and your family true comfort other than I am truly sorry for your loss.
I lost my main riding buddy a little over a year ago, and still think of him every day...one of the things he taught me was to never assume against an allergic reaction. He used to go to an Allergist to receive shots and would have to wait afterwards to confirm no reaction. After 20 or so visits, he felt there was no need as he was receiving the exact same shots and decided to head back to work, but within minutes he said his throat started closing up & he could barely breath & thought he was not going to make it. Lucky for him, he was able to get back in enough time.
Hopefully you posting here will bring awareness & possibly save their or a loved ones life.
Again, so very sorry for your loss.
DoldGuy / Doug
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Foxx,
I lack any wise words that can afford you and your family true comfort other than I am truly sorry for your loss.
I lost my main riding buddy a little over a year ago, and still think of him every day...one of the things he taught me was to never assume against an allergic reaction. He used to go to an Allergist to receive shots and would have to wait afterwards to confirm no reaction. After 20 or so visits, he felt there was no need as he was receiving the exact same shots and decided to head back to work, but within minutes he said his throat started closing up & he could barely breath & thought he was not going to make it. Lucky for him, he was able to get back in enough time.
Hopefully you posting here will bring awareness & possibly save their or a loved ones life.
Again, so very sorry for your loss.
DoldGuy / Doug
From the bottom of my heart DoldGuy....Thank You.
I've actually had a chance to sit for the 1st time tonight and relax somewhat, and do a little searching about "contrasts/dyes" and their side effects. Some of it is REALLY disturbing...and I did find one where there was another death at a St. Lukes Hospital...I'm not sure where that is, there may even be more than one St Lukes in America...but it was almost the same scenario...a person went in to have a CT done for their lungs, and the person passed away shortly after the CT while still in the hospital.
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Sorry for your loss Man & thank you for the warning. Your trying to help others in a time of loss is a testament to your parentage.
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Sorry for your loss Man & thank you for the warning. Your trying to help others in a time of loss is a testament to your parentage.
Thank you 81!...that really means a lot.
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So so sorry for your loss brother prayers to you and yours.
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So so sorry for your loss brother prayers to you and yours.
Thank you Shlepy!
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Hey family is family you hurt we hurt atleast that's how it should be and the way the Fonteyn family feels.
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Hey family is family you hurt we hurt atleast that's how it should be and the way the Fonteyn family feels.
A-men Shlepy...well said!
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Hey family is family you hurt we hurt atleast that's how it should be and the way the Fonteyn family feels.
+1 from the Weir Clan.
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My wife & I both had a bit of a cry for your loss. She has lost both her parents in the last few years. My side is a little different, my sperm donor isnt worth 2 shakes, & my step father was only available for a few years, long story. I'm as much envious of a father worth concern let alone mourning. You're a lucky man in in that I believe. Stick to the lessons & that inner voice you hear of his guiding you & he'll remain to guide.
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My families thoughts and prayers are with you Foxx! Lost my dad when I was 9 probably easier than spending more years with him, but not a day goes by I don't think of him. Keep them memories close man!! You will be reunited with him some day!! I know its tuff just lost my mom-in-law on valentine's day, after being by her side for 3 n half years battling lung cancer. Time, family, n friends will heal. We are all hear for ya Bro!!
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My families thoughts and prayers are with you Foxx! Lost my dad when I was 9 probably easier than spending more years with him, but not a day goes by I don't think of him. Keep them memories close man!! You will be reunited with him some day!! I know its tuff just lost my mom-in-law on valentine's day, after being by her side for 3 n half years battling lung cancer. Time, family, n friends will heal. We are all hear for ya Bro!!
Thank you Reklessj!
My dad lost both his parents at a young age too...his mom when he was 13, and his dad when he was 21. Luckily he had two older brothers that took care of him and helped raise him.
My dad broke new ground, as he was the only one on his side of the family that's made it over 55yo so far...he turned 71 Feb 28th. He's got 3 nephews and two nieces(my cousins) from his middle brother that're still alive, and that I still see periodically.
The part that was/is bothering me the most, is getting over if he knew what was happening to him when he started coughing at the hospital...if he was scared, knowing that he wouldn't have a chance to say goodbye to anyone....but maybe it was better that way.
I've been trying to steer away from those thoughts as much as possible, and concentrate more on how happy he was, and how well liked he was here in Plymouth.
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I've followed this thread Foxx, you've been in my thoughts. I lost my Dad in 1994 under circumstances that were medically, at that time, preventable, then a year ago same thing happened to my Father-in-law. It is so frustrating and painful knowing it could be prevented. So your post touched a raw nerve for me. I'm sure you know what works for you, but being busy as possible was the best help for me, the thoughts flood in anyway, and nothing to do was the worst for me. I see here many people are in your corner, God bless.
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I've followed this thread Foxx, you've been in my thoughts. I lost my Dad in 1994 under circumstances that were medically, at that time, preventable, then a year ago same thing happened to my Father-in-law. It is so frustrating and painful knowing it could be prevented. So your post touched a raw nerve for me. I'm sure you know what works for you, but being busy as possible was the best help for me, the thoughts flood in anyway, and nothing to do was the worst for me. I see here many people are in your corner, God bless.
Thank You I.D.!!
you're absolutely right, it is frustrating encountering a preventable death...I would've never imagined I would be having to go through something like this with todays technology. It's been a real reminder to me, just how precious life is, and that anything can happen at any given time, and any one of us could be gone in a blink of an eye.
I also agree with keeping as busy as possible...it's been a little tough, since we still have close to 2 feet of snow on the ground...but thank God for pets!...I'd be lost without my Golden Retriever at my side right now.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss too I.D....and everyone else that's lost a parent or loved one.
Here's his Obituary that came out today...
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/southofboston-ledger/obituary.aspx?n=daniel-p-nunes&pid=174469104&fhid=25389
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My families thoughts and prayers are with you Foxx! Lost my dad when I was 9 probably easier than spending more years with him, but not a day goes by I don't think of him. Keep them memories close man!! You will be reunited with him some day!! I know its tuff just lost my mom-in-law on valentine's day, after being by her side for 3 n half years battling lung cancer. Time, family, n friends will heal. We are all hear for ya Bro!!
Thank you Reklessj!
My dad lost both his parents at a young age too...his mom when he was 13, and his dad when he was 21. Luckily he had two older brothers that took care of him and helped raise him.
My dad broke new ground, as he was the only one on his side of the family that's made it over 55yo so far...he turned 71 Feb 28th. He's got 3 nephews and two nieces(my cousins) from his middle brother that're still alive, and that I still see periodically.
The part that was/is bothering me the most, is getting over if he knew what was happening to him when he started coughing at the hospital...if he was scared, knowing that he wouldn't have a chance to say goodbye to anyone....but maybe it was better that way.
I've been trying to steer away from those thoughts as much as possible, and concentrate more on how happy he was, and how well liked he was here in Plymouth.
Yeah man just keep with the happy thoughts n good memories. He is in such a beautiful and nice place he wouldn't want to come back!!! He knows how much you all loved him and that you will all be back together at some point. Keep your head up Bro he is with you every day!!
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Damm Foxx. I'm shocked and crying reading this.
My condolences, and I wish the best to you and family.
Dutchie :cry:
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Damm Foxx. I'm shocked and crying reading this.
My condolences, and I wish the best to you and family.
Dutchie :cry:
Thank you Dutchie. :-)